Is She Cheating?
Many Husbands Find Out Too Late...
© Ruth Houston
Couples therapists report a 50% increase in female infidelity.
The cover story in the current issue of Newsweek is all about cheating
wives:
"The New Infidelity - From Office Affairs to Internet Hook-Ups,
More Wives Are Cheating Too."
Yet, as widespread as female infidelity has become, many unsuspecting
husbands have no idea their wives are having an affair. They often
find themselves in a situation like David in the Newsweek article, who
found out his wife was cheating the day she told him she wanted a
divorce.
Unsuspecting husbands are often surprised when they learn of an
unfaithful wife's extramarital affair. But, the stark reality is that
if a husband isn't familiar with the signs of infidelity, by the time
he finds out his wife is cheating, it's usually too late.
Women Don't Become Cheaters Overnight
"Yet many of the signs may have been there all along,"
says Ruth Houston, infidelity expert and author of Is He Cheating
on You? - 829 Telltale Signs.
"A woman doesn't become a cheating wife overnight. Infidelity develops
in stages. In almost every case, there are numerous telltale signs
along the way."
Know How to Spot the Telltale Signs
Says Houston,
"Many of the warning signs of impending infidelity are evident long
before the infidelity actually takes place. The husband who knows how
to spot these telltale signs at least has a fighting chance to save
his marriage. He won't end up being devastated like John LeSage in the
Newsweek article who came home one day and found that his wife of 24
years had disappeared. John might have done things differently, but he
never got the chance, because he never knew his marriage was in
jeopardy."
Identifying the Problem
"The first step in solving a problem is knowing that the problem
exists.